Vicarious trauma is real and can lead to poor morale and
health in advocates who are regularly exposed to the trauma of others. The effects of vicarious trauma can mirror
the reactions that we see in victims of domestic violence and sexual assault –
depression, difficulty planning and making decision, and problems following
through with a course of action. An
advocate may become hyper-vigilant and have difficulty sleeping.
In order to keep on providing good advocacy services, there
is a high level of responsibility on the part of the advocate to manage her/his
own trauma effects. Hopefully, an
advocate is working as a part of an organization that promotes good self-care
but the mission of domestic violence or sexual assault organization cannot be
fulfilled if it is spending all of its time managing the trauma of its advocates. Advocates need to consider self-care a
responsibility to themselves, their organizations, and to the victim/survivors
who are seeking services. Given that an
advocate is expected to perform his/her duties and provide support as a part of
employment, it is imperative that self-care be done pro-actively rather than be
used as an excuse not to be available to a victim/survivor.
This is becoming increasingly important as agencies are
expected to do more with less. It is not
fair to the agency, co-workers, and victims if an advocate decides that the
effects of vicarious trauma are so bad that she cannot provide advocacy for an
afternoon or a day. In the same way that
first responders and emergency personnel are expected to work through the
stress, advocates may need to find a way to continue to provide support and
perform work tasks even while dealing with the effects of trauma. Yes, we expect our agencies to be trauma
informed/responsive and have an understanding of the trauma that advocates experience.
However, it is the advocate’s responsibility to create a plan to manage the
effects of trauma during both work and off-work hours.
Supervision can be used to discuss the effects of vicarious
trauma and can also be used to determine whether or not an advocate is truly
dealing with the effects of VT or is experiencing burnout or compassion
fatigue. It may be a time to explore
boundary issues, grapple with organizational skills and managing workload, or
re-define success or expectations.
For some people who continue to grapple with the stress of
providing advocacy to victims of abuse, it may be necessary to self-reflect on
whether this particular choice of occupation is a good fit. Sometimes it is important to admit that it is
time to move on and make other choices rather than continue to work in a job
that affects your health and well-being and makes it difficult for you to
fulfill the expectations and mission of the organization and the victims who
seek help. This does not mean that one
has failed. It just means that there was not a good fit. There are many jobs which I have not applied
for because it would not be a good fit and a few jobs in which I worked that I
eventually left because it was not a good fit.
By learning what fit and what didn’t I was able to make better career
decisions that fulfilled me and used my talents. I also know, however, that I am responsible for
my own self care.
The following information is from The Headington Institute. It is an outline for managing
vicarious trauma for advocates and managers.
Make a vicarious action plan
You probably wouldn’t set out
to help the people you serve without a plan. Why not give yourself the benefit
of that same approach? This exercise can be completed in 15 minutes, or you can
spend more time on it. We strongly recommend that you repeat it at least every
couple of months.
As you complete the exercise,
you might like to refer back to the text of this module. For each question
we’ve included links back to the relevant section. You can also follow this link to
download a list of all
the “Think about” questions in this module. If you have been taking notes in
response to these questions, those notes will help you complete this
exercise.
1.
List your important risk factors for vicarious trauma. These are
things that get in the way of you helping others. They come from three main
areas:
a. From
personal factors (e.g., past and current stress in your life)
b. From
your situation (e.g., work-related factors)
c. From the
cultural context (e.g., discrimination and attitudes of intolerance)
2.
List any signs or symptoms of vicarious trauma that you are
experiencing. Think about the following areas:
.
Physical
a. Psychological
b. Behavior
and relationships
c. Worldview
or frame of reference (spirituality, identity, and beliefs)
3.
What are things that you can do to cope better with these
symptoms? (Hint: Think about how you can counteract your risk factors, and
remember that good coping strategies for vicarious trauma are things that help
you take care of yourself – especially things that help you escape, rest, and
play.) How can you take care of yourself in the following areas:
.
Physical
a. Mental
and emotional
b. Behavior
and relationships
c. At work
4.
What steps can you take that can help you transform your vicarious
trauma on a deeper level? (Hint: remember that transforming vicarious trauma
means identifying ways to nurture a sense of meaning and hope).
.
Outside work
a. During
work
5.
Pick two things you have listed in response to questions 3 or 4,
and think about how you will put those into practice this week. Set two
specific, realistic, goals by completing the sentence below (Hint: think about
how, when, and where you achieve these goals and put that in your answer too):
This week I will ______________________ to help prevent or manage vicarious trauma.
This week I will ______________________ to help prevent or manage vicarious trauma.
6.
What obstacles might get in the way of you doing the two things
you identified in item 5, above?
7.
What might you to do overcome the obstacles listed above? What
will support you in accomplishing your goals (Hint: think about people who can
support you and how they might encourage you.
What managers can do
Are you a manager? Managers can
take many steps to help lessen the impact of vicarious trauma on staff they are
supervising. Here are some of them.
1.
Understand the psychological and spiritual impact of humanitarian
work:
a. Be alert
to how the cumulative exposure to stressful and traumatic situations may be
affecting staff.
b. Regularly
check in with staff about how they’re coping – do not wait for them to approach
you with a problem.
c. Support
staff in seeking counseling or coaching if and when needed.
2.
Set a good example in the way that you care for yourself,
including:
.
Work at a sustainable and reasonable pace over time, and encourage
staff you supervise to do the same;
a. Openly
value things and people outside of work (e.g., time spent with your family);
b. Take
allocated leave time;
c. Acknowledge
that humanitarian work can be challenging and that healthy work/life balance
takes practice and intentionality.
3.
Especially during times of increased pressure or crises, look for
ways to help staff keep current challenges in perspective by:
.
Reminding staff of the bigger picture of the organization’s
mission and purpose, and how this assignment or disaster response fits into
that bigger picture; and
a. Reminding
staff of the value the organization places upon them both as people and the
organization’s most important resources. Encourage staff to work in sustainable
ways. If that does not appear possible in the short-term, encourage them to
take extra time after the immediate impact phase is over to rest and regain
equilibrium.
4.
Express concern for the general well-being of your staff and not
just the quality of the work they are doing.
5.
Make sure that staff suggestions and feedback about their jobs and
the organization are heard and valued – even if you are fairly sure they will not
result in tangible change in the near future.
6.
Do not say or do things that would stigmatize staff who are
struggling with vicarious trauma or other stress or trauma-related issues.
7.
Strive to stay positive, and to praise and acknowledge effort and
results whenever possible.