Generational Poverty and Trauma

  NOTE: Please be aware that for the sake of creating an understanding of some of the issues that pertain to trauma survivors who have grown up in poverty, I will be making some generalized statements. It is very important to know the survivor as an individual with specific issues that may be due to growing up in a specific culture and may not necessarily meet all the characteristics of that culture.


Many of the survivors who seek shelter from domestic violence programs have grown up in generational poverty. Ruby Payne, author of “A Framework for Understanding Poverty” defines generational poverty as families who have lived in poverty for at least two generations, meaning children of parents in poverty grow up to live in poverty themselves. By contrast, families in situational poverty have fallen into poverty because of a traumatic event such as illness or divorce. She writes that families in generational poverty form their own culture with different values, habits and lifestyles from families in the middle class.

Persons who grow up in generational poverty have different values regarding money, different communication styles, and perceive the world based on their own experience. Someone who has grown up in pervasive poverty may not have had resources available with which to develop skills with which they could move out of poverty. These resources include financial means and support systems that can assist the person in moving out of poverty. Trauma also impacts the ability of a person to move out of poverty. Those skills which are necessary in order to maintain safety and survive in a culture of poverty and trauma are primary, while other developmental milestones or skills may not be nurtured and enhanced.

In the following chart I present information based on Ruby Payne’s work but also add in the component of growing up with trauma. It shows the values involved in decision making, conflict resolution, financial decision, and meeting new people and describes the world view of people who have grown up in generation poverty, middle class, wealth, and/or a culture of trauma.

Generational Poverty
Decision Making - Decisions made based on needs of entertainment and relationships


Conflict Resolution - Ability to fight or have someone who is willing to fight for you.

Money - Money is for entertainment and relationships.

World View - The world is what is locally around you.

Meeting New People - Comments are usually made about you before you are introduced to others.


Middle Class

Decision Making - Decisions are made related to work and achievement.


Conflict Resolution - Able to use words as tools to negotiate conflict.

Money - Money is for security and is saved. .

World View - The world is your own nation.

Meeting New People - You introduce yourself to others.

Wealth

Decision Making - Ramifications of the financial, social, and political connections are important to decision making.


Money - Money is for security and is usually invested.

World View - The world is international.

Meeting New People - Someone in the group formally introduces you.

Trauma

Decision Making - Decisions are based on safety


Conflict Resolution - Fight, flight or freeze

Money - The future is improbable. Much has been lost in the past and it is anticipated that loss will occur again. Spending decisions are based on anticipated loss.

World View - The world is unpredictable and limited.

Meeting New People - If I don’t trust you, I won’t talk to you unless I need something from you.



When working with someone who has experienced trauma and poverty it is important not to judge them or have the expectation that they will make decisions the same way that you would if you have not grown up in poverty or with trauma. For example, given that a person has grown up in poverty and trauma she may make a decision to spend an income tax return on entertainment or items needed at this moment rather than saving for the future. For a trauma survivor, given that so much has been lost in the past and that the victim has often felt she is living on borrowed time, saving for a future that may not occur is not considered. By imposing our values on the person we are at risk of alienating her.  It is best to recognize the difference in values and understand that as a domestic violence advocate you need to work within the values of the person for whom you are advocating.

I invite you to have discussions at your workplace that take into consideration the impact of generational poverty and trauma and work toward a greater understanding of the dynamics that occur in the decision making process and communication styles for persons who have not had the resources to be able to move beyond poverty and trauma.